my natural home is the world of spirit.
So I meditate, I write stories, I reconnect to the world of my home that way.
Then I move into the world of the physical, I feel lost, alone, small tiny and have no idea what the hell I'm doing here.
That move from the spirit to the physical feels similar to when we have a nice dream: all is clear, we KNOW and understand, then when we wake up it fades and we lose it. The reality of it leaves us.
Or it is like: a great insight and understanding that fades gradually.
In the world of spirit there is no need for words, no need for complex arguments, for written rules.
There is just KNOWING, obvious, clear, intuitive. You just KNOW, what is right for you, what is not, you know what your level of honour requires and you live by it naturally like breathing.
There is no need to look up a book of rules or 'HOW to's'
In the world of spirit the key is 'connection'
In the world of the physical there IS a need for words, clarity, rules, agreements. There is uncertainty and most of all there is something that does not really exist in spirit: FEAR. Fear based on a feeling of separation, fear based on 'either this or that'. For me the key to the physical is 'separation'.
I want to look at the feelings as I move from the world of spirit to the world of physical:
Moving from the world of spirit to the world of the physical feels very strange for me because I still have a memory of the spirit world. For me moving to the physical creates feelings of
- vulnerability, naked and defenceless,
- feelings of being stuck in a bog, stuck in quicksand
and most of all FEAR.
Fear paralyses, fixes in place, nails me to one spot so I'm afraid to move. It is like a vine that weaves itself around me and immobilizes me. No motion, no movement.
To break out of that feeling I often use anger, the power of movement and fire and explosion. I raise the dragon and spew forth fire and smoke (words, criticism, judgement).
Fear, Anger, frustration has been my normal response to the physical.
I've wanted to get OUT of the physical.
Well not entirely, there are some nice things on the physical, but as a whole, the physical world seemed dangerous, tricky, violent, fearsome and unpleasant (yukkie, irksome).
But if i had no lessons on the physical I would not be here in a human body.
I've spent time running from the physical, avoiding the lessons etc...
Only recently have I started to understand the things which I've written here.
I've understood that much of my reactions to life have been reactions to a change of environment.
That move from spirit to physical.
I can understand my own reactions more when I think of a move from a country where i am happy and at peace, where i have friends and family. In that place I know where everything is and how to do things. Then I am forced to move into a new country where I don't know the language. People do things differently, they don't behave the way I am used to, they have strange customs I find disgusting and primitive and revolting (as well as some really nice ones).
They still do things in the new country that we have left behind for a thousand years in my own country. I hate it, I dislike it. It sucks.
And that hate and dislike is reflected back at me.
I hate it more.
I get more of my own hate energy back at myself.
My feelings of disgust, and revulsion come back at me.
I've met people who immigrated to a new country and yet they keep longing for and talking about the old country. Everything in the old country is wonderful and everything in the new country is bad, they can't see any good. They are having trouble adjusting to the new place. They recreate a mini version of the old country in the new one. Their children gradually move into the new country.
I have been very much like that.
For a long time I did not accept my new country, i.e. the physical world. Or I would only accept it on my terms, or only bits of it. I've accepted it more, but I'm not sure I've accepted it totally.
I still rave about how nice the old country is, and I pour shit on how bad the physical world is, how we had it sooooo muuuuuch better in the world of spirit etc... blah blah ... I think you get the idea. I have looked down on the physical world (because I'm so superior, i.e. spiritual - how ironic, it proves the opposite :-).
I've talked about moving from the world of spirit to the world of the physical.
Birth is the biggest move to the physical world of matter. Death is the biggest move back home. It is the birth back into the world of spirit.... laden with a shopping bag of experiences and wisdom....
But once I'm born then what ? is there still any moving between countries?
An immigrant to a new country has to buy a plane ticket to go 'home' to the old country.
But for me to go 'home' I can simply visit the old country of spirit any time. All it takes is intent and awareness. The methods differ for different people, for me the way 'home' is, solitude, quietness, space, a good cup of tea, meditation, writing (things like this on my computer.... ) ....
So for me moving from one world to the other is not a physical thing anymore, it is a thing of intent and perception. Well not entirely, travelling in the physical helps a lot and lends it a real power.
But even then, it is still a thing of awareness.
So HOW does one do that 'awareness' thing ?
I can only reply in the words of Juan Matus (Carlos Castaneda) "One intends by intending." and I would add: "One sees by seeing.
One wants by wanting."
The way for each person is unique and different.
There are physical ways to go 'home' as well. Alcohol, drugs, danger, etc... can be used as pathways get a glimpse of 'home'. The glimpse is genuine, the price for the trip is very high.
In the old days, when the world of spirit and physical were closer, and even overlapping everyone would naturally go 'home' to spirit to rest by simply shifting their awareness. Nowadays we have lost that ability.
We rely a lot on physical things. I believe that going home for a rest, and for a look and a visit is our birthright. We do it in sleep at the very least. It is not the going that it problem is the method and the price of going that can be difficult.
Figure1: The spirit and physical worlds only barely touch in our times.
Figure2: The spirit and physical worlds overlapped in ancient times. They will do so again one day... .
All this might sound a little abstract.
So far I've only set the scene to what I want to talk about.
Let me get personal: Deep inside myself I have always resented being in this country of the physical, it was rough, scary, barbarian and uncouth. It was not how I did things back 'home' (yes, this can be one of the blessings and curses of remembering 'home' too well. :-P )
I dimly remember having tried all sorts of other escapes from this country of the physical in other lives, including a self induced exit, and the usual methods of alcohol etc....
I was born with the clear memory that those methods don't work.
But still I was pissed off at being "...here AGAIN dammit !".
I was NOT impressed, scared and obstinate.
I would let no one FORCE me to LIKE it here.
No one would be able to MAKE me LIKE it here.
I missed my 'HOME' !
What the hell was I doing here anyway ?
I got into a power struggle with life.
I would not cooperate,
I would do the absolute minimum and that was all.
And add to that a good dose of fear.
Oh sure, I did what I HAD to do. To an outsider it looked like I did the right things. I tried hard etc.... well yes sort of but not really.
And I remembered vaguely a few things that from the last time I had visited the country to the physical. Old battle wounds itched and hurt.
What the f**** was I doing here once again ?
One of the things that persuaded me to change was a very simple and powerful realization:
- 'if that is what you want, ok you can have it!'
(That was the realization)
My response was:
Huh? what ?
- you heard me, if you want a half lived life of resentment and fighting life, go for it. It's your's.
What, you won't force me ?
- We've never forced you.
Yes you did !
- No, we never did.
Then why the hell am I here ?
- you chose this.
I didn't not really.
- .........silence ...............
Ok I guess on some level I did.
- Yes on 'some level' you did.
But not all of me.
- no, not all of you.
So what am I doing here ?
- to make it ALL of you.
what if i don't.
- then you don't :-)
I can't imagine ever getting to the point where I really LIKE it here.
- it's not a matter of liking, its a matter of resentment.
And once I don't resent it, I'll like it I guess.
- find out. he he he
- why not ?
- Ok, ok. Without that lesson well learned inside you, you would not be ready for the greater dose of joy and light that waits after that.
huh? greater joy ?
since when does it take strength to have joy ?
- since always. It always has.
hm.... that's a new one.
- Everything is in a tension of opposites. Peace and harmony too take strength, they are not the absence of war or conflict but they are the power to hold and weave warring energies that would otherwise cause destruction. Weaving them together to create peace and harmony is the task of the warrior.
The writing above was triggered by a experience I had at work once:
I had a flu on a Sunday, painful, my hair hurt, every move hurt.
The next few days at work I overworked then had to take it really gently.
I felt delicate and fragile by the middle of the week.
I simply had no energy to do anything but the basics and just what I had to do. I did it.
I had to enter data from a laboratory, answer emails, deal with people who asked lots of complicated questions, silly questions etc....
Then something different happened.
I didn't worry about what else I COULD be doing, or perhaps SHOULD be doing. I just decided that right now this thing I was doing was the right and best thing to do at this moment.
I no longer had the feeling of resentment at the thing I was doing.
I no longer distracted myself from what I had to do, or ran away into other tasks to avoid the ones I didn't want to face. I just did it.
I felt no annoyance.
Then I realized: that most of my life I had done things that I didn't really WANT to do.
When I had to enter the laboratory data I'd usually resent the menialness of the job. I thought:
" What was I doing such boring work for ?
It was below me.
I should be doing much more "important" things. " and I would try to get it done as fast as possible to make it disappear as fast as I could.
This was the attitude to many things in my life. I was always trying to make things dissappear to get to the nice bits... and I didn't really ever get there... .
But it took computer work to really show it to me.
Ever since I started working with computers in the 1990's I've found them hard to sit in front of for too long. Pain irritation, etc....
It wasn't till a friend suggested they might be reflecting back my own energies that the penny dropped....ahhh I see !
So when I simply accepted those menial tasks, I found: no problem from computer work. I didn't even feel irritated or annoyed. I could do more hours and still feel fine after wards.
The only thing I had changed was my resentment.
Chapter 1: Circles of growth
Drawings on my experience of working with energy:
What I send out comes back to me, quite literally, - my reaction is reflected back at me. If I then react the same way then this too is reflected back to me and so on.
That way the energy grows quite fast and very strong.
Examples of this are:
- computer work
in short: anything that I pour my energy into intensely will send that energy back at me.
Energy sent back at me gives me a choice:
I can see it as energy separate from myself and fight with it. I can perceive it as 'other and alien' and push against it.
I can look deeper and see that the source of that energy is truly from myself.
It has MY unique character imprinted into it.
All I am doing is seeing myself.
Life becomes a mirror.
I can fight within myself or I can accept.
If I accept then what was once an impenetrable mirror wall of silver becomes an open doorway.
(see George MacDonald's Fairy Tales for the idea of the silver reflecting bubble within which a person is enclosed. It describes the psychic reality of this very well.
Above figure: The white ring is the area the person can easily deal with.
The orange middle ring is the ring of current issues to deal with. The area of transition and change and growth
The faint ring on the outside is the next level of growth waiting to be dealt with.
Above figure: Energy is reflected back at the person sending it.
Above figure: Growth process, only a little of the energy used in growth is reflected back at the orange ring level. The orange middle ring is the ring of current issues to deal with. The area of transition and change and growth
More on how energy given out can reflect back on the person sending it here: http://heikorudolph.com/opinions/computerhumaninteractions.htm
It's a discussion about how computers can reflect back the energies at the person who sends it.
The same principle holds for anything into which a person pours a lot of their energy.
From the master's memoirs and letters: 15May10